嘿，
你来说了再见，眼里带着泪光；
我心里一凉，宴席终到散场。
以后我夜里找谁去要吃的，
电脑找谁修，
卡拉OK找谁一起唱。
最最要紧，
谁还能向你一样，
那么真诚善良，
让这么消极的我总还有一点信仰。
我会永远记得，
那天生日的烛光，暖过太阳。
你的劝告我听进去了，
以后你也要好好的学，好好的爱，
天空海阔，自由自在的飞翔
hello, my friends
November 13, 2006
In the past few years I have been meeting people all around the world, we met, we hung out, we said Good-bye. Some of them walked in and out of my life with little trace, while some of them have become my life-time friends. We write to each other once a month or so to update our lives. I always enjoy opening my mailbox and find a email from some corner of the world that says "hello".
Listed are some of my closest foreign friends, each one has his/her stories. I love them, I learn from them, and I miss them.
Nagisa: a cool Japanese girl, never hesitate to do what she wants to. Now volunteering in Zambia, teaching mathematics, drinking beer in the morning, dating a gorgeous 22 years old black boy.
Tem: Uncle Tem, excellent cooker, lousy student. Running an ice cream company in Bangkok, I can see him getting fat.
Pak: very rich Thai boy, but also very nice and generous, living in London now, partying hard.
Michko: a Japanese girl that look much alike me, and also doesn’t have much luck with guys. Our emails usually start like this " hello, how are you these days? have a boyfriend yet?"
Daniel: Dr. Smart, British, handsome, and a scientist, had his PhD at 25 years old. Now doing research in NY;
Chaewon: my role model, Korean, beautiful and graceful, successful career women with a loving husband, and just had a baby boy, she has it all;
Claudia: Colombian (South America country), used to work for her government protecting wild lives, now is giving up her whole life in Colombia and moving to Seattle for a man she loves.
Angus: nice Canadian (Canadian are always nice), my flatmate plus classmate, helped me with my studies when we were in LSE. Living in Toronto happily with his girlfriend.
Gorden: hot-blooded American kids, worked for couple of NGOs, moving around London, NY, Chicago, never be able to stay in one place longer than a year.
Hey, my friends, HOW R U?
为了忘却的纪念
November 7, 2005
知道武小文要来的时候我真是高兴极了。脑子里一下涌出那么多我们在大学时的片断。
她是我大学最好的朋友。我们一起在外面租的房子，凌云新村44号304，我最喜欢秋天的下午，微凉的风卷起我们阳台门上白色纱帘，电脑里传来王菲的“约定”，她在帮我烧茄汁海鲜意大利面，或者糖醋藕片。 我们一起通宵看片子，一起逛街买衣服，一起八卦。她比我聪明，比我勇敢，比我当机立断。
上一次见面已经是两年前了。那时我放假从英国回来，在上海和她住了几天。她那时在办研究生的退学手续，说是觉得念的没有意思了。她做事总是能叫我惊羡不已。
她和她的男朋友一起来香港转机，所以我们也只有一顿晚饭的时间而已。她还是老样子，高高瘦瘦，好像开心了很多。我想是因为她男朋友吧。记得那个时候我们没为了找男朋友的事少长吁短叹，现在她终于找到牵手的人，看到她挽着他拍照甜甜的笑，我知道她一定很幸福。
边吃边聊， 又讲到那些过去的事情。她还记得我喜欢吃煮毛豆，蚕豆，记得我们常常从楼下的一个叫小食堂的饭店叫菜，记得我们吃散伙饭的那天我穿了旗袍高跟鞋，回家的路上非要跟她换鞋子，还有和我们一起住过的养了一只兔子的couple……呵呵，人的记忆真是神奇，你觉得你自己忘记了，可是给什么东西触动一下，那些情节就慢慢的浮现出来，起初是雾状的，然后渐渐有些人影从迷雾中走出来，五官渐渐清晰，你看到其中那个在笑或在哭的就是你。记得看过什么文章说，其实人记得住你看到过的所有的事情。我要求不高，只要让我记得住半个钟头前看的paper就好。
又要说再见，下次见面不知道会是什么时候。不要紧，我们总有忘却不了的纪念。
祝你幸福～
